“they pray on unsuspecting women” Women as victims again…
“they pray on unsuspecting women” Women as victims again…
Ok this is a Today segment from Monday. The segment entitled “The Serial Dater”
is another in a long series of show segments, talk shows, numerous articles portraying men as “playas” “dogs” because they toy with the emotions of vulnerable, unsuspecting, fragile, frail, women.
I just think it tis hilarious, when will we get to the day where women are not always the damm victims of relationships.
Instead of plying the victim role, get smarter when it comes to entering a relationship with a dude.
This dude could not be a successful playa, particularly someone interesting enough to be a segment on the Today Show unless there were not a string of bimbos who 1) bought his bullshit and 2) willingly screwed his brains out.
“oh he will change for me because I can give him what no other woman can”
Pure comic genius! LOL!
Instead of ranting again saying the same ole shit, here is an old post, originally posted in May 07. This post along with a couple of other somewhat related post on women issues has generate the most comments, e-mails of any topic I have ever posted on this blog.
First was a response to me from a commenter about something I had said earlier and them my response to her.
I’m recycling this post AGAIN because of more recently added comments***
Here is a comment I received on the post: “More issues concerning women”
I’ve always enjoyed your website and your articles until this one. Being a single woman who’s succesful and educated who’s been in dozens of happy healthy relationships with one bad ‘Jarrod’ on my record I found this pretty offensive. There is one big difference between men and women in relationships and that is women don’t want to fail a relationship and men don’t even view break-ups as failures nor do they really take it personally. I found myself in the same situation doing everything to keep my man happy while he was cheating on me and telling me he loved me. I loved him and stupidly thought he’d change for me. Women learn these things as they grow up and through experiences and it’s very unfair for you to lable this woman as someone who is a lunatic and might possibly raise more ‘Jarrods’. I highly doubt she will. The fact that she tried soo hard and still attempts to see good in him tells me that she’s going to take extra precautions to ensure her future son not grow up to be a ‘Jarrod’.
I think your story here should be aiming more towards how men do vs should treat women. Women may not be as ‘emotional’ or ‘psycho’ if they were treated a little better. Maybe you should offer a crash-course is treating women with respect rather than labeling someone as a lunatic who will raise a ‘Jarrod’.I think it’s funny you blame this completely on the woman as being a lunatic. Do you know her or anything about her outside of an f’ed up relationship with this guy? I’ve been in dozens of very good and healthy relationships that didn’t work out for just general ‘going in different directions’ types of reasons but I’ve also been in ONE relationship just like the one described by this woman above. Being a single woman can be trying in this day for one thing. For two you never want to look into your past and have a ‘failed relationship’ and any woman who is in love will do all of these things and more to try and keep her man happy. Instead of accusing this woman of being a lunatic and potentially raising more ‘Jarrods’ why aren’t you getting down on men for being dogs to women? Why aren’t you getting down on men for taking advantage of women and lying to them? Women get soo emotionally wrapped up in relationships they honestly have no idea how far they’ve gone to keep a man until they finally withdraw themselves from the relationship, take some time and finally reflect on it. At that point they’re probably ashamed of how they behaved, irate they allowed a man to treat them soo terribly and completely jaded from having a healthy relationship anytime soon.
My response
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I wanted to put your comment front and center on this issue because I wanted to make it clear that I did not put up this post to specifically bash women.
I have two wonderful daughters, both single, both moms, both in relationships, my problem, my youngest in a relationship with a fucken bum.
I can’t even begin to tell you how fucked up this dude is.
My oldest in a relationship with a seemingly decent dude, she always did well in school, she had a few missteps along the way, but a good young lady and the best daughter I could have had.
Back to the youngest, 19, single mom, the “boyfriend” who she is living with is like I said, “a bum”, but forget about him, because I have always told my daughters that they are responsible for their own fate when it comes to their success and their relationships.
My daughter, did not finish high school, got pregnant as a Junior, never went back.
Let me add that my first wife and I divorced when she was 13, so let me just say part of her issues are my fault, I moved away, she got pissed, rallied around mom and other issues I won’t go into caused more of her problems.
BUT, BUT, I did not encourage her to open her legs, I did not stand in front of any school to prohibit her from attending, I did not tell her to date a 23 year old while she was 15 (her mom thought at the time that it was no big deal).
She had countless family resources for her to tap (since dad was the boogey man).
She is working at a fucken fast food joint, this is a young lady who is light years smarter that I will ever be, she is gorgeous, but you would never know it, she wears no make-up, dresses like a 12 year old (she still looks 12), she is a good mom however from all accounts, but she will never be anything unless she views herself in a positive light, but more than that she will never amount to anything until she pulls her head out of her ass.
This dude will certainly fuck up her entire life, but the thing is her situation is common.
She did not grow up poor, in a single parent home. My ex and I both worked, we were for the most part a close family, friends, extended network she has no excuse to be in the situation she is in now.
To show you how fucked up in the head she is now, my current wife Mrs. Snoop who is an attorney, had a position basically hers for the taking, working in a professional environment making almost twice what she is making at the fucken taco stand, she turned it down because she wanted to remain close to this bum.
When she was about to be kicked out of her first apartment, she managed to con her mother and grandmother into giving her money for late rent and the deposit for her new place.
She had told both that the bum was out of her life and not living with her (the condition on the receipt of the money).
Well y’all know the rest of the story, she moved to her new diggs and then the bum returned.
I have told her, I won’t give her one fucken dime as long as she is with this bum.
I along with my dad offered her a car and to pay for her to move out of the current city she is in near her older sister and where it would be easier for her to get a good job, shit she could be working for me.
Her sister offered her free room and board if she moved in with her to take care of her new daughter.
You should by now get the point of all of this ranting, again this is COMMON amongst young women, allowing some idiot fuck dude to screw them over and hence fucking up their lives when simple common fucken sense could fix their problems.
Note to young women, as a dad and a man, assume most dudes are fucked up.
I see young women with dudes and I roll my eyes because I can see almost even before they open their mouth that they are fucked up and stupid.
Maybe it’s a gift I don’t know but I can spot a bum a mile away. Women will almost always let “feelings” fuck up what would normally be a sound mind.
I love and respect women greatly. Most of my civilian life I have mostly worked around women, one of my mentors of course a woman responsible for what I’m doing today was brilliant as were all of the women in the department where I use to work.
If I were to start a business likely all of my employees would be women.
Bottom line, there are just way too many cases like my daughters where I see women allowing men to dictate their lives.
As you say women get so wrapped up in their relationship that the common sense I mentioned is lost. But when friends and family try their best to let’s just say “enlighten”
the individual and the pleas are ignored all you can do is hope on day that light kicks on.
“why aren’t you getting down on men for being dogs to women?”
Because I don’t expect any more out of men, I expect more out of women!
Just like in the post where I have the clip of Judge Mathis and the woman suing the dude over a cell phone. Almost every fucken day you see that shit.
Like I said you see the Brittany Spears and the Paris Hiltons and bimbos worship these skanks, the worst example of what being a woman means.
If you could lock up men for fucking over women, hey I’d support that BUT,
women need to look in the mirror and examine honestly where they are spiritually, emotionally and financially.
If you have a dude in your life is he contributing to those three things in a positive or negative manner?
Jesus if you answer negatively to all three and you are still with the dude then the problem is with YOU and not the man.
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March 28th, 2007 at 9:34 pm
I see both sides of this argument.
Are women ultimately responsible for the choices they make that end up hurting them? Sure. Cause and effect. But men too are responsible for their bad choices.
And should women be smarter and not think with their hearts (or other parts) so much/often? Sure, and so should men, but then where would the human race be?
BUT to blame women for being stupid over some man does not put enough blame on the other guilty party; men should also not keep hiding behind the “we’re all dogs, what do you expect from us?” excuse. It is an excuse and explanation. But it doesn’t make it right.
Why some people make bad decisions and don’t, won’t or can’t learn from them is a great question with about as many answers as there are situations.
But to say that women who love men who hurt them are who are MOST at fault does not help those women one tiny bit. Could they walk out? Sure. Just like the dog could reform his behaviors!
Who is the worse person: the woman who loves when there is more abuse then joy, or the man who abuses the person who loves him?
Blame and regret aren’t very useful things unless they are coupled with the ability or willingness to do things differently in the future.
For the life of me, I cannot understand why some people keep doing the same things, getting hurt each time, and don’t learn to stop it.
However, as someone who has put their heart and life in the hands of a man who has not always been perfect (and in truth has done some pretty messed up things) my only excuse is that I hope those I love will one day be the persons I believe they are.
If not, I know how to have dogs neutered.
April 3rd, 2007 at 4:19 pm
I must admit I know both of the parties involved in this sick perverse game
they are playing. She has constructively tried to ruin him. Called his work
numerous times, called his family, called his friends, and called his sexual part-
ners. She is nuts and deserves everthing that she is getting. He deserves
everything that she has done to him. He is a male whore and has no respect
for women. He still keeps her hanging on even though she has made him
move to get away from her and to keep his job. Both are crazy if they still
want to spend time with each other. Sick is more like it. Dysfunctional to
a point of ruining the quality of each other’s lives…
What a waste…
April 17th, 2007 at 2:36 am
This is ridiculous! So now instead of slinging mud at DDHG you’re all gonna do it here?? Well this guy did well for himself if ‘hits’ on his website is what he wanted. ‘Joanne’ is Andrea Depoy, the ‘physically nasty’ woman (as Jarrod described in his own words) who is insanely obsessed with Jarrod. He also treats her like shit but she follows him around while he’s following Jamie around. Also Jarrod was given the option by his employer to (a) Pack his shit and leave South Bend (b) loose his job forever. He chose (a) and was given this choice for the simple fact that after his employer conducted an investigation found that Jarrod was indeed guilty of harrassing Jamie. Jarrod’s job is once again on the line bc he never did end contact with her, instead he traveled to her vacation destination to meet up with her but he hates her as Andrea (wishes). The pregnant woman is Sandra and her story is pretty much acurate.
You people are freaking ridiculous and really need to get al ife! Andrea get on a treadmill and off the computer and Sandra go check into therapy and get off the computer. You guys are all f’ed up.
April 17th, 2007 at 5:45 pm
I don’t know the crazy girlfriend personally just Jarrod. Jarrod cheated on her with me and I got pregnant - opps. Jarrod called me a liar, slut, said it wasn’t his and I said well whatever sweetie I’ll see you in court in nine months to hash it out. A week later he called me up and asked me to dinner we had dinner and discussed abortion. He said he was leaving for NJ to marry a girl he’d known for 13+ years and didn’t want anything to get in the way and this new girl wouldn’t accept a baby that wasn’t hers. So after thinking about it for a few days I decided that I could go through with this afterall Jarrod is what I wanted, not a baby. I told Jarrod of my choice and that he has to pay for it as well as accompany me to/from the appointment. Jamie blew up his cell phone the entire time we were at this appointment. It was $550 and three hours of his time and I’ve not heard from him sense. I’ve tried like a muth fuka to talk to him but he won’t take my calls or respond to my emails. Today Jarrod and I would have a two month baby. I regret my decision but through thereapy I’m learning to cope and accept it. Jarrod Lackemacher is a piece of shit. He will plow down anyone or anything that gets in his way and he’ll tell you he loves you and will cheat with your mom, best friend, sister, cousin, grandmother anything that he can stick his nasty self into.
April 18th, 2007 at 3:59 pm
Funny how Jamie mis-spells therapy every time she posts something on every
stupid web-site she visits…If anyone cares she is the one posting everything
and than calling Jarrod and saying that everyone else is doing it. Nuts Nuts
complete nuts….she has no one and no one loves her and she has nothing else
to do with her time except make some crazy lies up in her head. Everything in
the last 2 posts is the crazy insane Jamie totally made everything up!!!! Funny
if she is claiming to be other people she should quit making the same spelling
errors…ha ha ha woo hooo funny psycho…
April 21st, 2007 at 3:46 pm
Daaaaang Snoop - ya shore du attract a classy readership!
The folks involved in this train wreck situation some how found your site and responded!
Who ever you are - catch a clue: You are all pathetic, immature, juvenile and distrubed.
The fact that you went public with all this stupid STUPID behavior merely undesrscores your lack of judgment and taste.
There is probably nothing that can be said to or about you that would help you to grow up and live life in more healthy ways. You’d rather have any kind of attention you can get, no matter how abusive or demeaning that attention becomes.
So here’s a hint: Join a circus, become a stripper (if you aren’t already) or better yet, a prostitut. But please, for everyone else’s sake; get nuetered first! The last thing this world needs is a baby from someone so dumb that they think killing a man’s baby is a good way to get his love!!
April 21st, 2007 at 3:57 pm
Joann - or whomever you are…. Please don’t take this too personally, because I agree that even the smartest women can sometimes do the dumbest things when it comes to loving a cheating male…. BUT take to heart what Snoop had to say about the tendency to overlook bad behavioirs, because of looooove, resulting in bad parenting choices.
How many mothers do I personally know who have raised spoiled irresponsible kids (male and female, but especially the boys) b/c they do with their kids what they did with all the men they loved but lost: Made excuses for them, let them get away with bad behaviors, and overlooked far too much conduct evidencing self centered choices.
While it’s impossible to tell if someone will be a liar, before you get to know them really well, far fewer bad things would happen (in relationships and with children) if lying were punished, hard and always, every time. If you catch your kid in a lie, make the punishment harsh and meanngful. And do not give a grown ass liar a 2nd chance. It never pays - if their mama did not get them to understand that lying is wrong, you do not stand a chance at teaching them that lesson.
April 22nd, 2007 at 1:17 pm
Okay, you all, just step the f*&k on back, because Jarrod is a good man and would never. . . .
Oh, shit, I can’t even type that crap without laughing. This is a trainwreck! Snoop darling, how the hell did you get this sideshow over here? I have a birthday coming up, you know, and am looking to book entertainment, and this shit is funnier than watching the Fat Lady try to wipe her own ass!!!!
When I first read the “he’s an asshole because I scraped his baby out of my womb AND HE STILL NEVER CALLS!!!!” post, I was genuinely glad about an abortion for the first time in I don’t know how long. The claims that it’s a psycho hosebeast pretending to be other people, though. . . whoa. Me, when I pretend to be other people, it’s usually like Liv Tyler or something fun.
Anyway, thank y’all—I’ve got my dose of Springer for the week, and now don’t have to tune in to the actual show!!
April 22nd, 2007 at 1:28 pm
“afterall Jarrod is what I wanted, not a baby”
Whether or not the persona is fake, I pray quite vehemently that this person never actually breeds.
Actually, the statement is almost iconic. It could be the motto of every unwed baby’s momma I’ve ever known. And this, according to the All-Knowing Misty, is exactly why people bitch and moan about the decline of society since the Pill. Separating relationship from family, and action from consequences. I don’t screw X because he’d make a good husband and father, but because I like his cell phone. I have the power to control my reproductive fate, but I choose not to use it, or to use it to manipulative ends, because sheeeit, I don’t want a baby, I want a man! One has nothing to do with the other, except having the first to get the second!
When did the poles shift? Was I stoned and not paying attention?
April 22nd, 2007 at 10:55 pm
Even if ‘her rantings’ are 10% truthful I can’t see how ANYONE could honestly say
‘Okay, you all, just step the f*&k on back, because Jarrod is a good man and would never. . . . ‘ as in the words of this Punky Jewster
April 23rd, 2007 at 2:16 am
I’m happy this man appears to have some friends/supporters and maybe he is really a good person to some people but really how can anyone read the ‘her rants’ section and say ‘he’s a good man’. Even if only 10% of what this girl says is actually true he is not a good man. No matter what a ‘good man’ shouldn’t do such horrible things even if it’s retaliation. I agree with Terrymum, good writings to that person!
April 24th, 2007 at 10:47 pm
It is all made up. Jamie is making the abortion up…Can none of you read?
April 25th, 2007 at 2:10 am
‘Joanne’ or whatever your name is, sweetie come on now! Arent you old enough to realize what you’re doing here. These people are laughing at you, they’re mocking you and you’re helping them make a fool out of you. Sweetie you keep referring to this ‘Jamie’ person. Who is that? Why do you keep doing it? If you want to talk to this ‘Jamie’ then why don’t you contact them? You continue attacking this seemingly non-existant person for who even knows what reason. Whatever the reason you’re just making yourself look really desperate and very much a fool. If you’re trying to defend this man that’s great but why would you attack someone who obviously doesn’t exist just to be getting a word in? Joanne sweetie, I really hope you find some help because you seem to need it. You should try contacting your invisible friend ‘Jamie’ maybe you two can get things figured out so you’re not making such a fool out of yourself. Your messages are what makes these people post these things because you get sooo worked up.
Sweetie get some help you really need it. Maybe you can get Jarrod to pay for that too since he’s probably responsible for your messy self. Also you are correcting people and their spelling - what about this? It should be ‘then’ not ‘than’. I would much rather make a spelling error than be a derelict crazy person who has no grammer skills what-so-ever.
‘If anyone cares she is the one posting everything
and than calling Jarrod and saying that everyone else is doing it.’
Sweetie just get some help. We don’t want to read your postings at another mans website. It’s okay just to accept your man did some woman wrong. It’s life
April 25th, 2007 at 11:16 pm
#1NY sounds like an angry lesbian who has been shot down by most men.
April 25th, 2007 at 11:44 pm
Hey #1 Dick Breath Jamie is the original poster on DDHG.com. Before you open yuour smelly dick breath figure out what the hell your spouting off about…
April 27th, 2007 at 1:45 am
Sandra (Joanne, Whatever, & Sick of the #1 Whinner). Do you have any idea how much trouble you’re creating for me? You need to stop. The more you post these comments the more is sent to Jamie via myspace and then sent to my company. If you don’t stop this I will loose my job. I don’t want to be with either you or Jamie and I just wish you’d stop this.
April 27th, 2007 at 3:22 am
Funny one Jamie…
April 27th, 2007 at 8:13 pm
I’m glad this is a joke to you Sandra.
April 28th, 2007 at 12:35 am
Really don’t care what you think or feel.
April 30th, 2007 at 3:05 pm
Snoop - I read your articles almost daily! This one struck my attention simple bc 7 years ago I dated a very similar disaster. His name was also Jared but people called him ‘Jay’. Jared was an incredible man but when it came to being in a realtionship he was the spawn of the devil. Jared knew, understood and wanted us to be in a relationship with me. For the obvious reasons that he was 30 at the time I thought he knew what relationship meant. It was not the incessant lying or the unwillingness to comminicate with me about what he wanted or expected. It wasn’t his chemical addictions or even the suspicions I’d had that he was cheating on me. It was pretty much when the suspicions I’d had were coming true with physical evidence. Voicemails, cards, just regular mail, random gifts, 2am phone calls and so on. I gave Jared an ultimatum and he admitted he cheated with this girl and that he was sorry he loved me. He also let me know she was pregnant. He wouldn’t confirm or deny if it was his and at that point I moved on. I see this Don’t Date Him Girl site and I do think if I can find a picture of him I’ll add the posting. I wonder where he’s even living anymore???
May 1st, 2007 at 11:02 pm
This is starting to sound a bit immature but the whole DDHG thing was immature to begin with. The person who posted the profiles on DDHG is actually Jamie. Her personal vendetta against Jarrod is being mocked now and she is pissed. I do not deny that Jarrod may have treated her badly, but it is time to move on. Jamie, quit being so vengeful and do something positive. Okay, so you have warned women on DDHG and other websites about the infamous Jarrod…over and over again. Time to focus on yourself. If you put him in the past and move forward your life will be much better. Why would you allow yourself to continue on this path of self destructive behavior? Let him go and get some help.
May 3rd, 2007 at 1:29 am
Okay whoa. ‘Angry Lesbian’ ‘Dick Breath’. Well it’s pretty obvious those are the words of a ‘Jarrod Supporter’. My first question would be, How can a lesbian have dick breath? Second question Why would you attack anyone for being a lesbian? Word around The Bend is your boy is having sex with dogs but you’re going to defend him and attack someone for being a lesbian? I would love to meet you and have you even begin attacking me for being a lesbian bc I really am one and any girl who’s this upset over a man is not even close to being a lesbian. She’s just a ‘hurt female’. Finally sweetie why are you trying sooo hard to make this situation worse? I’m going to guess the two parties don’t even know their article was picked up by this site but here you are attacking relentlessly. Are you that bored? My guess is ol boy ditched you for this girl and you hate her for it. Honey let me tell ya something, running around calling people ‘dick breath’ ‘lesbians’ and posting 20 + comments at some website that has nothing to do with you is beyond the ‘crazy line’. So what if he chose her over you, my guess is he chose her bc she’s better in bed than you. Grow up! Stop being twelve! Stop chasing this man who doesn’t want you. Honey if he wanted you then he’d have you, you’re that desperate and good for this girl who posted at DDHG. It’s not immature at all, it’s smart and thank goodness she put a warning out there for the next woman he dates. Maybe after all this BS he’ll treat women better. So I give who kudos. Oh and one last thing sweetie, get a hobby, go to the gym, start a good book or better yet find a man. Let this go! It’s not about you.
May 3rd, 2007 at 1:32 am
I have a man posted at DDHG and there is actually a link at the youtube site for this site which is how I got here. I’m glad she posted him. This may be an isolated inncident and Jarrod may be one of the best men there are out there but he did her dirty and if she feels better telling about it then she has that right.
May 4th, 2007 at 10:46 am
If you would read the blog this is not for the support of Jamie the repeated DDHG poster. This blog states the girl need to grow up and move on and quit making her self look like an idiot.
May 4th, 2007 at 10:29 pm
If you read the blog, sick girl, you’d see it is NOT supporting this creep. You are one fucked up girl. You’ve left like 20 messages defending this creep. Are you that desperate??? Are you truly that much of a looser. This creep deserves you for sure! You are icky girl and he apparently doesn’t want you. Why don’t you go find Jarrod’s other girlfriends, round up some farm animals and go at it?? You’re all fucking sick
May 5th, 2007 at 4:07 pm
GO GIRL you know nothing about me and are displacing your anger on me. You need to get over it and so does the repeat DDHG poster. (though I believe you are one and the same) Move on with your lives and I would watch out what you say on here as it is slander if it is untrue. If you are bashing someone with lies you can be held accountable just as Jamie has learned when she removed all her comments about NY and Jarrod chasing her there as they were all lies and some fantasy she made up in here head….
May 5th, 2007 at 10:22 pm
Um sweetie I have no idea who these people are and what you’re talking about. It’s just really sick how you sit here and post 20+ comments about these alledged people. How do you even know this entire story is even legit? How do you know this website poster didn’t make it all up themselves? You sit here and slander this alleged poster then you yell at other people telling them they are multiple people and that they are in trouble for slander. Sweetie check yourself really. Neither the guy or girl subject in this article have been made a fool out of. It is you and your nin3 thousand comments from all these different names accusing people of things you have no idea about. You know I am angry that children are beat on a daily basis, there are starving kids in Africa and all you can find to do with your time is defend this man and beat down this woman. Have you even met these two people? Have you walked a day in EITHER of their shoes or taken ten minutes to get BOTH sides from each person before you go on your personal slandering thing and accusing me of venting my anger towards you? Someone needs to because this is absolutely insane. Why don’t you proved you have full knowledge of BOTH sides of this story from EACH individual and that you are a legtimate person who can make these stupid hateful comments here? If this girl posted a cheating man at a cheating site then fine. She has that right. Just as the man has the right post her if she cheated on him. You however don’t reserver the right to post 20+ comments claiming to know all of these people accusing the involved parties of anything. DO you have any idea what each of these people are going through right now? Heartache and dishonesty in a relastionship are plenty to deal with then to have some crazy person hiding behind a computer telling the ENTIRE world their own jaded version of what they think happened is NOT something these two need. In addition all the comments and views you make at this particular article is what makes is a searchable thing by either party’s name. It is you who is keeping this going. That is just simple knowledge of having any ounce of brains when it comes to computing. THen again there are some people who only know how to use the computer to hurt other people. That person sounds like a perfect fit of you. Why don’t you leave these two people alone? It is apparent if either of them wanted anything at all to do with you they’dbe talking to you and you wouldn’t be at this website posting your ridiculous claims. THis mans name IS ALL OVER the internet and not bc of DDHG. Instead bc of the many ‘questionable’ websites he’s applied for access to. Honey if you support this man in his actions and behaviors that’s wonderful and he’s lucky to have you but really honey support him in a way you don’t hurt him. As I said the more comments and views the easily he’s found. Imagine your little love muffin is needing to find a job and the possible employer just happens to ‘google’ him. Dozens of websites are going to come up showing that possible employer all of this drama. Do you think any employer would ever say oh lets hire him for sure! NO sweetie they’re going to throw his resume away and why? The constant posting of comments and the higher the views the more attraction is drawn to the page. This man never would’ve come up with just being posted at DDHG. Try it find some random guy posted at DDHG and see if he’s able to be googled. It’s bc of how many times the profile is viewd and how many comments are left. Youneed to love your man in a better way - this way is only hurting him and will end up pushing you two apart. If he is still talking to you knowing all of this it is bc he is desperate and will drop you as soon as someone else comes along. If you google sociopath this man in this story is THE perfect example.
Also I wouldn’t be so quick to say she made up this NY stuff. You’d be very surprised how very quickly ‘proof’ can surface. NOt only that but what will you, his employer and his family think after that? Keep pushing things sweetie. You’ll end up getting your man in a whole new world of hurt….
May 6th, 2007 at 2:38 am
must I say it again ….get a life who would waste their time reading the dribble…. psycho get a life or pretend like your worth another…geez….boring
May 6th, 2007 at 3:37 am
I honestly believe 100% that God will get the evil bitch JAMIE for spewing her lies and dishonesty. Her hurt and untruths have disrupted lives and hurt honest and good people. She was a stupid girl and let herself get used. Whose fault is it? Her own. We all make choices. God gave us the ability to chose right from wrong and good from evil. She has chosen to be evil, hateful and full of lies and the ability to use her lies but I believe God will find her and make her see the evil she has caused. People say she is mentally ill, I myself think she is an evil bitch and choses to hurt people….But God will chose her fate…
May 6th, 2007 at 2:30 pm
You ALL need help - lots of it. Go see a counselor for about 5 years, stay away from drugs, bars, and sex outside of marriage; go to church every Sunday and get involved in community activitities that help the less fortunate, and for God’s sake do NOT breed until you ALL have gotten these petty stupid and destructive tendencies conquered.
Otherwise, you are doomed to stay your current maturity level - which I deem to be aproximately 4th or 5th grade, if that!
May 7th, 2007 at 12:49 pm
Couldn’t have said it better myself Terrymum!
December 6th, 2007 at 2:29 pm
m.. thank you man
December 13th, 2007 at 11:18 am
Ah, this again. The comments get ridiculous, but your point is so true. Last week I made a white-knight run to Emporia, a friend from way back needed help to keep from going off the deep end, because her boyfriend/baby’s daddy was dumping her after she’d done, in her estimation, everything right. Forgave him for the cheating, forgave him for the numerous STDs he brought home to her (some while she was pregnant, even), kept believing that if she just quit being such a jealous suspicious bitch, he’d change, and her behavior (the jealousy and suspicion) was what drove him to fuck everything with even a vestigal vagina within a hundred-mile radius. Now, girl has enough shit on her hands right now, a preemie baby going in for open-heart surgery, among other issues, so I kept my mouth shut and tried to be as supportive as I could. I understood that she wanted to keep her family together, but I couldn’t keep quiet about the fact that raising this child in that family would have fucked her up to no end. I mean, a two-parent household is ideal, but not when one parent treats women like sperm receptacles and the other is a neurotic, suspicious, resentful doormat.
Ach, I don’t get it. I have only ever let one man I was in a relationship mistreat me, and that’s ’cause it was February in Missouri and I didn’t have a place to stay. Oh, and I was a junkie. I’ve screwed up my life in so many ways, but I never believed that a man who treats me badly “loves” me, or will change if I just forgive him enough. I’ve dumped assholes for nothing more dramatic than saying, “Hey, if you worked out some, you’d look more like her, and I’d sure like to fuck her.” So it’s very hard for me to understand why seemingly-intelligent women turn into drooling idiots when some slick bastard with a smarmy line and a case of the clap tells them they’ll do, for now.
January 7th, 2008 at 6:37 pm
This original posting that was taken from www.dontdatehimgirl.com wasn’t from some girl who thinks she can change men or thinks they’ll be ‘good to her bc she can give them something’. Instead it was from a highly inteligent woman who not only was cheated on, lied to and harrassed from this man but stalked AFTER they broke up from Andrea Depoy and Angela Fisher two women this man was sleeping with. The posting was a warning to other local women about this man. That he’s repeatedly behaved this way to several women and hopefully would prevent the next woman from falling into the trap and suffering the way the poster has suffered. Instead this posting was taken by the person running this website allowing Andrea, Sandra and Angela to create identities and post hateful comments. This also resulted in Jarrod being asked to leave the city he was in in order to save his job after relocating he was then fired. Once again this had nothing at all to do with some poor pitiful woman who thought she could change someone. It was a warning to other local women but was completely blown out of control by these three women.
August 3rd, 2008 at 5:32 pm
OMG this blog is way to funny.. I to know Jarrod Lackemacher.. and I think all of you are full of shit !
August 17th, 2008 at 2:17 am
This is true he is indiana right now and gonna fuck me while his girlfriend is in NJ oblivious to everything he is a slime ball and a cheater and likes to use woman. He lives with a girl and last he told me was that he will never leave her because she is good to his family…poor girl
August 23rd, 2008 at 1:29 pm
I fucked him too yesterday.