Comments on: Can Men and Women Be Just Friends?

By: Female Friend

Female Friend — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 18:11:00 +0000

Hey I have lots of male friends. I do on occasion decide that I want to fuck their brains out. The sexual tension is released then we can go back to being friends. What is the problem?

By: RON MEXICO

RON MEXICO — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 18:37:00 +0000

Can I be your friend

By: Snoop

Snoop — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 19:01:00 +0000

Damm Ron I thought Malibu would beat you to posting that!

LOL!

By: sexymama

sexymama — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 19:32:00 +0000

Snoop/guys: All this discussion does is tell me that I should NEVER completely trust my man to be around other females. Period. Is that what you are saying? Are you saying that any man will screw any woman, if they are willing, unless the woman is related or just plain older than dirt or butt ugly!?

By: Snoop

Snoop — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 20:00:00 +0000

well………..uh……..hmmmmmmmmm………..well……………………………..hmmmm……………………………….uh……………………….YES!

By: Snoop

Snoop — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 20:02:00 +0000

I thought about it again and the answer is still YES!

By: MALIBU JONES

MALIBU JONES — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 20:17:00 +0000

Whats up Snoop, why you picking on me, I have female friends, that don’t give me any

By: RON MEXICO

RON MEXICO — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 20:27:00 +0000

I do agree with Snoop, SexyMamma, do not let your man talk to anyone, I guess that is why I am single, Men are hunters and like to conquer whatever they can get their hands on, Everytime I meet a woman, I size her up, like the ole rap song - “I like big butts and I cannot lie”
Now I do have women friends, who give me advise and I wouldn’t trade that for anything, and no, I haven’t had sex with them, not that I wouldn’t like to
but we keep it real

By: Snoop

Snoop — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 21:07:00 +0000

C’mon M.J. dude you gonna have to send me photos, what do they look like. I’m just skeptical :-)

By: Snoop

Snoop — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 21:08:00 +0000

I size her up, like the ole rap song…Man I wuz in tears LOL!

By: sexymama

sexymama — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 21:16:00 +0000

Hmmmm. So what you boys are saying is that a man should never ever ever ever ever be trusted alone with another female (espcially if that female is fine and/or willing?). That certainly makes me feel better. Guess I’ll have to put cameras up at my man’s office, to keep an eye on him when he’s out of sight.

I personally have lots of male friends, and yea some of them probably would have enjoyed a roll in the hay with me - had I been so inclined. But I wasn’t and mainly because doing it with them would be icky, to the max. Like screwing your dad! Ewwwwwwww. But not ALL of them viewed me that way..I’m pretty sure…. hmmmmmmm.

So, Snoop/MJ/Ron etc…don’t you have ANY female friends that are like sisters……. ladies for whom none of those tingly feelings “rise up”.

By: MALIBU JONES

MALIBU JONES — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:14:00 +0000

Of course I do, , I grew up with my sisters, female cousins, and a lot of female friends see me as someone they can trust, I have one female friend for over 30 years, we have stayed closed, and can call each other anytime, without our signficant other getting jealous
Besides Snoop, if I sent you pics, you wouldn’t believe it, now don’t get me wrong, If they offered, I would not turn it down, but it’s more than that
if the lifelong friendship and trust that can’t be compromised

By: Terrymum

Terrymum — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:16:00 +0000

http://www.blurofinsanity.com/honestlove.html says:
Men don’t really have female friends. They may say they want to be your friend, or that they are doing things for you because you are ‘friends’ - but you are not their friend. They are ‘acting’ like they are your ‘friend’ because they are trying to have sex with you. This is a fact. Trust us, as much as you think you are a wonderful, fascinating, exciting female, you really aren’t so interesting to men.

The reality is, men would always rather hang out with other men - there are no exceptions. Just accept that it’s true.

By: MALIBU JONES

MALIBU JONES — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:30:00 +0000

Sorry, but I really disagree, I have some female friends I would never, never, ever even consider kissing, let along having sex with, just as you probably have men friends you feel the same way about. You don’t know me, so there is entirely no way to prove to you that I am right on this, so the argument stands

By: sexymama

sexymama — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:39:00 +0000

I have friends like that myself, and believe others can too. Maybe it is jus SNOOP that cannot ever truly be “jus frends” with a woman?

By: RON MEXICO

RON MEXICO — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:42:00 +0000

ok. I would really like to know Female Friend, seriously, a lot of times, sex just complicates things, women get attached, men get p-whipped, I have female friends I have sex with in the past, no attachments, they knew this going into it, so it’s all good, I telling you this because y’all couldn’t pick me out of a line up, if both the man & woman agree, and stick to that agreement, there are no problems, there are some women who keeps tallies, notches in their headboard, just like men, so that’s the double standard, men are called players, women are called ho’s, that not fair, but that society, hell I like meeting women who likes it as much as me
that’s a challenge

By: RON MEXICO

RON MEXICO — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:57:00 +0000

have you seen’s snoop pic?
black homer simpson, just wondering how close he looks like that in person and of all the characters he could have picked out, he picked that one
no woman would even look his way
sorry, I couldn’t resist that, he has to be faithful to his woman
which is a good thing,

By: Snoop

Snoop — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:57:00 +0000

I have a few female friends who are like sisters. In fact when I introduce them I do so as “my sister”. We raised our kids together, family outings whatever. Known them for 20 plus years. The main deal was my respect for them. The husbands are like brothers. We have a long history it would have never crossed my mind to do anything funny, like I said it was a respect thing. That is the only way it would work.

Now…
There are more woman like “Female Friend” then they like to admit. Its a way of having fuck buddies. It is also a way of controlling her “stud stock”. “If your a nice boy I’ll give you some” BACK AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER! You women know I’m right dammit!

By: Snoop

Snoop — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 22:59:00 +0000

El B was right…I don’t have that much hair. Hey I would talk about how cute I am but Mrs. Snoop reads this………..well U know…….
DON’T SAY IT RON OR M.J.!!!

By: MALIBU JONES

MALIBU JONES — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 23:13:00 +0000

why do you keep referring to me and Mexico in the same sentence, I believe men can have female friends and I do have them, without anything going on, I have daughters, nieces, sisters and would never degrade them in anyway

By: RON MEXICO

RON MEXICO — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 23:16:00 +0000

oK just fucken with you Snoop, but you are right
women are closet freaks
I have one with me right now
can’t tell you what she’s doing (X-rated) and I have a buddy who gets more married than when he was single, but that’s his thing, it’s like the ring is a magnet, what’s that about - he is always telling me things, I am thinking about writing a book about his adventures

By: RON MEXICO

RON MEXICO — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 23:23:00 +0000

I just took a survey where I am at and guess what, everyone likes to FUCK, and everyone would like to FUCK at least one friend, just once, now all they have to do is to get that friend to agree for the hell of it, then go back to being friends, I am in that majority, so I will try to conduct this experiment and get back with the findings

By: Pink

Pink — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 00:44:00 +0000

Yes we do use sex to get attention and to keep men (friends) in check. But most women won’t admit that.

By: Ms. Bloggy

Ms. Bloggy — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 00:59:00 +0000

You guys are dead wrong. You watched too much Sex and the City. We don’t do the fuck buddy thing. I’m not positive but I would hope that women are more responsible and that men are not that stupid. I have lots of guy friends and we do flirt but we all know the boundaries. I have known most of them since we were in elementary school. Respect does play a big role. But if people are as screwed up as you guys make them out to be we are all in trouble.

By: No Diddy, Just P

No Diddy, Just P — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 01:10:00 +0000

Check out the females in the photos when women get too friendly and feel they can wear whatever, rub all up on you, tease, do the touchy grabby crap then its over.
If after engaging in “friendly behavior” dude gets a hard on then the woman gets offended. That does not make any sense to me!
Its true, the two can’t be attracted to each other in any way. Now having said that just because we get a hard on does not mean we want to marry you either. Its not love bulging out of our pants!

By: Snoop

Snoop — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 01:51:00 +0000

Sexymama, now Snoop CAN be just friends with a woman…IF she looks like Janet Reno!!!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 01:54:00 +0000

I have lots of lady friends. i just don’t tell my wife. Female Friend where are you from?

By: PT Pimp

PT Pimp — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 01:59:00 +0000

This will piss sexymama off but, I don’t believe in God but if he can deliver on that prayer…
“I pray for a deaf-mute nymphomaniac with huge boobs who owns a liquor store and a bass boat” hell I can become a church goin’ man.
Snoops right we are pigs.

By: ron mexico

ron mexico — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 02:17:00 +0000

Whoa, Anonymous, Female Friend is my friend, you have to stand in line..People sex is a physical act, like baseball, you have a bat, a ball well two balls, your goal is the hit a home run. you may strike out sometimes, but when you hit the homerun, there is nothing better, fuck the triple.
the problem is men & women make it mental, that is where the problem starts, emotions, it gets ugly, treat it like a sport and everyone will be ok, a safe sport that is, wear your helmet

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 16:26:00 +0000

“Everytime I meet a woman, I size her up, like the ole rap song”
Every man does this, I don’t listen to rap but I doubt “an old Yani song” would fit. Hey ladies, especially you sexymama. Every time you walk into a grocery store, laundry, office. Hell if you are taking out the trash, taking the dog for a walk men are looking. Some just hide “the look” better than others do.
Any man who says he does not size up a woman the moment he sees her is just flat lying.
So do you women actually think that the guys who says they “are just friends” are not checking out your ass when you walk by. Ask yourself would a “friend” do that?

By: mitzibel

mitzibel — Sat, 27 Aug 2005 05:34:00 +0000

Okay, so I’m going to go out on a limb here and say, yeah, they can be friends, and yeah, there may well be sexual tension on one or both sides, but that doesn’t mean a friendship doesn’t exist.
The best roommate (and one of the best friends) I ever had was a dude. A dude who’d had a crush on me a couple of years back when we’d first met. Whether he still harbored said crush, or anything close to it, while we shared an apartment, I’ll never know, because he was too sensitive and intelligent to make an issue of it, even when we were really, really drunk. And in return I didn’t hang out in skimpy pyjamas or run from the bathroom to my bedroom nekkid after a shower, and I always turned the radio up real loud when I had a date with the latex boyfriend. And all was well in Gove and Misty Land, and had I not met Trey, we’d probably still be smoking pot in West Hills together to this day.
Wait a minute, where was I going with that?